Few characters in classic literature are as unforgettable and hilarious, yet completely mesmerising as Mr. Darcy from Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. With his brooding charm, cutting wit, and eventual transformation into the perfect romantic hero, Mr. Darcy has captivated readers for over two centuries, and I myself am one of them. Whether you admire his intense declarations of love or enjoy the sharp observations others make about him (my favourite bit), Mr. Darcy quotes are rich in emotion, irony, and insight. In this post, we’re diving into 8 of the most famous quotes; a mix of things he says and what others say about him — each unpacked with a short analysis. Perfect for fans of Jane Austen quotes, students of classic literature, or anyone who just can’t resist a good old classic like me. There's a reason he is timeless! Jane Austen definitely knew what she was doing.
Here are our 8 Iconic Mr Darcy quotes- whether spoken by him or about him! Enjoy.
And we're starting strong...
1. "She is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me."
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 3
This early quote defines Darcy’s initial image as totally proud and overly dismissive and curt when it comes to romance. It’s socially arrogant and cutting, especially since Elizabeth overhears it! Ironically, it sets up the romantic tension that follows. The line is rhythmic and abrupt, reflecting his emotional distance and judgmental nature which is beyond humorous in hindsight, given how wrong he is and how much he evolves!
2. "He was the proudest, most disagreeable man in the world."
– Elizabeth Bennet (about Darcy), Chapter 4
Elizabeth’s judgment of Mr Darcy reveals her sharp wit and the novel’s core theme- how first impressions can be completely misleading. Her exaggerated, hyperbolic tone is funny and intense, and shows how quickly her prejudice takes root and we just can't help but love her shrewd nature. It captures both Darcy's cold demean or and Elizabeth’s spirited response... and I am here for it.
3. "My good opinion once lost, is lost forever."
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 11
This abrupt statement reveals Darcy’s inflexible pride and moral rigidity. He holds himself and others to strict standards and makes sweeping generalisations presented in a moralistic, aphoristic tone. As the novel progresses, the absoluteness of this statement is softened, showing how Darcy learns to become more open and forgiving and agreeable when it comes to society and love. This quote really sets the benchmark for his change and I think it marks a pivotal part of the novel...up-hill from here surely!
4. "In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed."
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 34
Ah, here he is! This passionate line opens Darcy’s first (disastrous) and comical proposal. It reflects deep emotional conflict between his love for Elizabeth and his excessive all-consuming pride. Romantic in its intensity, but awkward in its delivery, it shows his struggle to express his emotions and shows that he just isn't there yet.
5. "You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you." (number 5 continued)
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 34
Despite the flaws in the proposal, this line is one of the novel’s most iconic romantic moments. “Ardently” gives it a depth of feeling, while the formality of the sentence reflects his difficulty expressing his vulnerability. It’s so sincere and deeply felt by all, and even if poorly timed, it really does show how much Darcy is emotionally invested and how far he has come. Love this quote? Check out our bookish wax melts full of literary quotes that we love!
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6. "Could you expect me to rejoice in the inferiority of your connections?"
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 34
Also from the first proposal (I do love this scene!) this line reveals Darcy's ingrained class prejudice. It’s so hurtful, even as he's declaring love! The rhetorical question is scornful, reinforcing how much his pride and social conditioning still control him. This quote marks the lowest point of his emotional intelligence which makes it a real key moment before his change begins.
7. "He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal."
– Elizabeth Bennet (about Darcy), Chapter 56
Elizabeth defends her right to marry Darcy, challenging Lady Catherine's complete snobbery and prejudice. Though not spoken by Darcy, it reflects the change in both their attitudes toward social class and love. The repetition of “gentleman” gives the sentence rhythm and weight, reinforcing the novel’s argument for judging people by character, not rank and once again we praise Elizabeth's sharp wit and intelligence here.
8. "You are too generous to trifle with me. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once."
– Mr. Darcy, Chapter 58
In his second proposal, Darcy is respectful and restrained. He no longer assumes Elizabeth's consent, but instead puts the power in her hands. The tone is humble and gentle and so his growth is really evident because he now shows emotional maturity, courtesy, and love without arrogance. Romantic and noble in its simplicity. It's beautiful! His story arc is wonderful to read and watch on the screen.
Mr. Darcy really does have some of the most unforgettable lines in Pride and Prejudice... whether he's being unintentionally funny, painfully awkward, or completely making us fall head over heels for the guy. His quotes are a big part of what makes Jane Austen’s writing so timeless and enjoyable and one I know I will always go back to. Whether spoken himself or about him, his character is complex and joyful to study time and time again.
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